My sin and pray

this is just a random post, my though about my parents. Ever since 3 years ago, they were in financial problem and it was getting severe since 6 months ago. The warning has gone, now it's the critical situation. I finally saw my mom getting depressed, despite the fact that she always been the most optimistic person in our family. My dad even worse, he can't even sleep well now. What should i do as a daughter? My grandparents also very worry about them, apparently that's a miscommunication between my parents and them. My grandma said my dad is not obedient, never listen to her, so she used to ask me to "advise" my parents. But what should i do as a daughter? Should i obey my grandma, or ignore my parents' own right to think and decide for themselves? I pray and i hope God can help us. There is nothing much i can do, i just realize. I don't have money to pay their debt, i don't even dare myself to quit my job to help them take care of business. And i am selfish, i don't even want my dad to work physically hard if i ask him to be a cook, or construction worker. And there is no way i will let my parents to split if there is chance for one of them to work abroad. I am selfish, i don't like to see my parents, especially my dad to worry so much until he thinks he is incompetence, useless and thought everyone will look down at him. I am so selfish that how could i live happily and positive, with enough saving to do investment and go traveling, yet i never help them even to always disagree their ideas of expanding/changing their business not too long ago. How could i ever do that? I am such a selfish and disobedient kid. I pray for forgiveness, i pray that God can watch my parents and give them a hand,  i pray so that we can get through this problem as soon as possible.